".......but: ARE YOU HAPPY?
I don't care what you have and did, this is not a contest - it is your life. I am asking you a very simple question and you can't give me the straight answer. You should be able to recognize your feelings, right?
So, just look inside your soul and tell me : are you happy?"
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"OK then, I will help you, but you must stop fighting me all the time. Just try to see my point of view, that's all that I am asking of you. let me show you things that you have forgotten, things that you lost along the way, things that you hide. Don't be afraid, it is nothing to be ashamed of. No commitments, no obligations I just ask you to open  your eyes and soul. Then we will start."